On a Battered Society, Feminism, and Confined Horizons
We are a battered society. Even those doing the battering are damaged goods. The moment I understood that I forgave them all their faults, their angry outbursts, their displays of road rage, and their twitches and ticks. Here, of course, I refer to psychological battery and bullying From the moment we are born our lives are surreptitiously steered towards what society, our parents, our schools, our extended family, and the village believe to be the ideal standard. Our goals are predefined. Now, don’t get me wrong, the village here could be the ‘hara’ in a city, a cluster of people who form a cohesive unit, a village/ghetto inside a bigger more impersonal city. As Lebanese, we are not revolutionaries in our nature. Our perception of revolution is of a violent free-for-all. We do not have any positive ideas about revolution, whereas in actual fact, revolution and violence are not necessarily wedded to each other. Sudden and major change is revolutionary: imagine a jumbo jet banking right...